Daughter talking in tongues because of force

I’ve been a Christian my whole entire life, nothing has changed of course I’ve had ups and downs and times that I can’t sound like a true Christian but that’s in the past. I had a kid outside of wedlock and a Christian marriage up for my sins I’m not justifying anything and and I’ve also been divorced to her choice and also chearing on me.. So if you want to grill me or talk about how bad a person I am go for it. . But the woman to my child is forcing my kid to speak in tongues for “for her prayer language”. She’s forcing my kid, saying that everyone can get every spiritual gift from God. That even being speaking in tongues my kid is seven and she has been forced to get her “prayer language” or pretty much she won’t make it to heaven, her mom came in the picture about a year ago while I race the first 6 years of her life while she was a drug addict but wants to act all perfect now and tell me how horrible of a human being I am. She pretends to go to church constantly and belive she’s holier than anybody, while not saying she sins and telling me and gf are going to hell, because were not married or God won’t listen to our prayers because were not married, also fun fact ,MY DAIGHTER IS SEVEN BTW(just turned that age recently). Ive spent countless hours talking about religion and answering the questions that she had(my daughter), we used to do it everyday as a exercise to bring her closer and to learn especially to read the kids bible ( for her to understand better at that age) which is about 300 pages mainly about the New Testament and then I wanted her to learn and brought her to church and explain everything about religion and who is who (the trinity) but the bible study she has had with me I think she hes has a gift to help people out better, so please don’t attack me for cocerns of myself, I read the children’s Bible to her every single night and took her to school and all that without getting super deep in the details, she’s been reading the Bible and this and that. But her mom corrupts her mind by forcing her into religion in a bad unhealthy and yes I understand this is a long message but I can go into a lot more detail . So please give me validity and understandabliliy to what I saying. I believe that she’s gonna rebel, because she doesn’t care or understand what’s going on now she’s being forced by her mom to pray in tongues even though she knows nothing about it and that if she doesn’t do this or that then her life is pretty much over and unfortunately she has her 5 days of the week I only get her on the weekends she’s never been religious (meaning my daughters mother and proudly an ex wife) I’ve been the one that has been religious and yes we share joint custody. Am I wrong to be upset about this? Of course I want her to follow Jesus, but she’s 7 years old and I feel like she’s being forced to do something because her mom is making her, and she’s way behind in school and learning topics because her mother keeps her out of school constantly while her mother dropped out in Middle School and im not trying to be mean she’s not book smart only psychology but when it comes to real life nothing adds up but manipulation. I am I overreacting for being mad, just want her to think for herself and listen, or she can agree with her dad, or her mom, according to the divorce paper’s, she’s old enough to understand. Instead of having a parent that will blackmail you, into doing something she doesn’t understand but if she pretends(my daughter)which her mom buys her a cheap toy. I’m a proud Christian and want her to be a whole lot better person than I am so at this point I just think it’s manipulation and I think it’s sad and it really bothers me. Thanks to anyone that reads this it’s long but I appreciate it.