Friends

Hello,

I still think about this guy. I don’t know why because he didn’t really respect me. We went on 3 dates and he stopped talking to me because I wanted to have sex after marriage. We had a fight on our 2nd date about it. I know in our society nowadays a lot of people are intimate before marriage.

Another issue is he thought marriage was just a piece of paper and thought getting married in a courthouse made more sense. Clearly we aren’t compatible at all but my human brain still thinks about him here and there. Why are we programmed like this? There were obviously aspects I liked about him too but there were definitely major things that made us think we weren’t right. Have you ever met people that you weren’t compatible with and how did you overcome it? Fear of loneliness?