Does God have the traits of a dictator?

Before I ask the question, I am not saying that God is a dictator, I am a devout Christian and I am trying to learn more. I know the question looks blasphemous, but this isn’t my intention and I would never turn my back to God.

What do dictators do? If someone opposes them, they either kill them, or imprison them. Isn’t that the idea of Hell? I get the idea of free will, but is it actually free will if it results with us ending up in Hell?

Are we also forced to love and worship God so we can enter heaven and not be subjected to eternal damnation? Even if it isn’t eternal damnation, but rather annihilation, it still is the same idea. Isn’t that the same idea of we are forced to accept a certain dictator of a country so we don’t end up in prison?