How do I stop going on dating apps when I know that it’s not good for me? I need to be single without feeling the need of going on dating apps and would prefer to need someone in church or in person.

Every single time I go on dating apps it’s the same thing and it just feels so unnatural to meet someone. I want to surrender to God and make him the first person I go to. I’m not willing to go long distance and the guys in my city I don’t really match up to them because they want career women but I am unemployed trying to find a job right now. I just don’t feel like I match up to them. But more importantly I know that I’m not fully healed from my traumas and my relationship with God is not where it should be but I’m trying. I also know that I play a huge part as well as why relationships never work out but I keep going back online thinking that it will work but it won’t. So how do I stop going on dating apps when I feel lonely and how can I improve my relationship with him and be more diligent in reading the Bible and praying more? How can I Rely more on God?