“Perfect love casts out all fear”

Consider this verse, how beautiful it is. If you can just latch on to God hard enough, loving him with all your heart like Jesus says too, then you will never again feel the fear of being condemned, you will never again worry about your loved ones going to hell, because if you love God with a deep enough love, you will not be able to believe he is going to condemn you. It’s easy to start worrying that God doesn’t love you when your own love for him is weak. But when you know in your heart that you love him more than anything in the world, then you will believe that he loves you absolutely. And when that kind of love is reached, there is nothing you can do or say that will cause you to feel like he is going to send you to hell. This love can even carry over to your loved ones, because “god would never do that to me”. That’s the kind of thoughts you should be having regarding condemnation. If you see God as your father, a father doesn’t punish his children for no reason, and even when he does discipline them, it’s for their own good, how much more our Heavenly Father only disciplines us for our own good. And when the love is pure enough, the child might even say to the father, “you’re not gonna punish me for that right daddy”🥹 and his heart will melt as he says “no my son, how could I”.
So If you’re worrying about God not loving you, or sending you to hell. Try focusing more on your love toward him. Then you will believe his love for you.