Please help i need help with god

I need help with god i belive but this is bugging me too much God says he views us all as equals but why am i more fortunate and why do i get to receive a better life than a kid who would be bombed for who they are. I understand god himself didn’t do these terrible acts but why if everyone has a purpose and a destiny in life why is their destiny that. why should they be bombed flr living that life why did they have to be born in such a position.